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Jun 1, 2015 1:10 AM
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Anyone of you who have read my previous thread should know what I was doing nowadays , trying to renew friends back together....

But in the middle of this I got confessed by the same gender person.....
I don't know how to react....
Seriously this is a bad situation
Any advice would be appreciated........you know that it all comes down easily!!
And that person was in my gang.....
Forgot my umbrella......!

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Jun 1, 2015 1:11 AM
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You say "I don't have romantic feelings for you" and then you pretend nothing ever happened because you want to stay friends.

Like how normal people reject others.
Jun 1, 2015 1:11 AM
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tell him that you are flattered but you like girls
Jun 1, 2015 1:12 AM
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you're going to have to go out with him if you want to keep the squad together

take one for the squad
Jun 1, 2015 1:12 AM
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Say that you are str8 m8. If he's a respectable guy he'll accept it.
Jun 1, 2015 1:15 AM
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What previous thread? Tell him you aren't into guys, but want to stay as bro's. Also this.
GGeo said:
tell him that you are flattered but you like girls
save all the cute girls from ntr manga
Jun 1, 2015 1:18 AM
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Tell him that he is disgrace for the gang.
But you accept him anyway just as friends though.
Jun 1, 2015 1:18 AM
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From what I can glean from the OP, it seems he said "I will think about it". Thats a big no-no for giving him hope. You should have rejected him on the spot if you don't have feelings or want dik.
Jun 1, 2015 1:29 AM
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Pitbull said:
you're going to have to go out with him if you want to keep the squad together

take one for the squad

was gonna say the same thing

Don't want the squad to break apart
Jun 1, 2015 1:34 AM

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This is where my stalker began his stalking.

Beware.
Jun 1, 2015 1:35 AM

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I once was walking down the hallway in school and a guy from one of my classes comes up to me while we were alone and he affectionately asks me out and hes acting in a way I havent seen him act before. It felt wierd so I started laughing since I really felt like he was just fucking with me, but I tried to calm down my laughter and said "I'm sorry I dont feel that way" or something like that in case he was serious. I tried to be polite and gentle although my laughtr broke some of that. It really bothers me I still dont know if he was serious or joking.
Jun 1, 2015 2:23 AM

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And another question.....
Should I be happy that I was being confessed or is it wrong for me because he's a guy and it would make me look like gay too.....


Pitbull said:
you're going to have to go out with him if you want to keep the squad together

take one for the squad


I would think about it but I do wanna keep the squad together once again
UGH.....Why now of all times when I'm going through such difficult stage!!


Thanks all you guys let's see what might happen.....
I hope he would understand me but the chances are slim...
I hope he doesn't get too hurt or try to destroy the squad!!

Kagami_Hiiragi said:
This is where my stalker began his stalking.

Beware.


Thanks but I don't think he's that kind of guy!!

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MasterTengkorakJun 2, 2015 8:25 PM
Forgot my umbrella......!

Jun 1, 2015 2:27 AM

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the squad will be in ruins, rest in peace
Jun 1, 2015 2:29 AM

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I dont seem to get the story
can u explain?
I might help you

Hi
Jun 1, 2015 2:29 AM

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Pitbull said:
the squad will be in ruins, rest in peace


Let's see what might happen

I guess the direct approach is the right option!!
Forgot my umbrella......!

Jun 1, 2015 2:35 AM

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Just tell him you don't roll that way
Jun 1, 2015 5:00 AM

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"I dont want to suck your dick GET AWAY FROM ME YOU HEEVAN"

But just say that you are straight or something or don't have feelings for him
Jun 1, 2015 5:02 AM

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Say you arent into boys.
Jun 1, 2015 6:44 AM

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simple.

"B-b-baka, I'm not even interested in you! Don't even think about showing me your penis, I would never!"

Be sure and blush, and continue to orbit him for a few weeks until you're alone together, then you can physically open up to him as long as you don't say anything.
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Jun 1, 2015 6:59 AM

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REJECT HIM !

Unless he's John Cena, no human being would reject John Cena.
Jun 1, 2015 7:17 AM

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If you don't like him, just tell him
Jun 1, 2015 8:13 AM

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I'm gonna try to persuade him tomorrow while carefully worrying about my other mission ........

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MasterTengkorakJun 2, 2015 8:37 PM
Forgot my umbrella......!

Jun 1, 2015 8:20 AM

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man you guys are a lot nicer than when I made a thread similar to this, everyone saying I had gay pheromones and that I should be happy anyone at all is interested in me and what not.

But yea just say you're not interested, doesn't mean you can't still be friends although they might not be too thrilled about it at first.
Jun 1, 2015 8:24 AM

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Drug him after rejecting him in the most terrible way ever and then put him in his bed and pretend it was all a dream. That way he will be too scared to confess because he might think his dream will become reality
Jun 1, 2015 8:40 AM

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Jesus whats the big deal, just say you're not gay
I've been here way too long...
Jun 1, 2015 8:57 AM

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Tell them you're into vaginas
Jun 1, 2015 9:21 AM
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Just be honest. Tell them you're straight and not interested. Be polite and gentle. Also try to emphasize that you don't have a problem with their sexuality, but rather are just not interested in dating them. Don't be a dick ya know?
Jun 1, 2015 9:25 AM

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Getting confessed to by a guy is always awkward best thing to do is let them down polity. Tell em you're flattered really but you're just not available for that kind of relationship.
Jun 1, 2015 10:01 AM
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Raghnaq said:

I'm gonna try to persuade him tomorrow while carefully worrying about my other mission ........


In that case, I think you should just make it clear to him that you aren't interested and apologize for any misunderstandings you may have caused, whether on purpose or not (even if you feel like you've done nothing like that, this is common courtesy), and see if you two can remain friends. I think that if he was truly your friend, he'll understand after this.
Jun 1, 2015 10:05 AM
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Just tell him/her you don't swing that way. Simple. Don't beat around the bush.
'The way of the wang is long...and hard'
Jun 1, 2015 10:06 AM

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Just say "nah I'm straight"

Is it really that hard?

Jun 1, 2015 10:10 AM

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be gentle and sweet about it, tell him that u like him as a brother.
then DUMP his sorry ass .... jk.
just be cool about it and do what mayu told u too, this isnt different then being confronted by a girl u dun like btw ...
plz stop making gay/straight a thing already ... move on people its 2000 and fuking 15.
Jun 1, 2015 12:29 PM

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Before you turn him down completely, you should sleep with him once. You may end up finding out that you like it!
Jun 1, 2015 1:08 PM

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vokisa said:
Before you turn him down completely, you should sleep with him once. You may end up finding out that you like it!


I agree, you really should.
Jun 1, 2015 1:50 PM
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You shouldn't be friends with him at all, since he'd definitely be offended by some of the stuff you've said in here. Don't talk badly about others behind their backs.
Jun 1, 2015 1:55 PM

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Tell him you wont murder him if he gets you a GF

Anime is good, fucking deal with it.
Jun 1, 2015 2:30 PM

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Gay guys have lots of hot female friends, tell him to hook you up and you'll send him a shirtless pic or something.
Jun 1, 2015 2:45 PM

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If your not homosexual, decline his request by choosing "Thanks, im really happy about your confession but let's stay friends!". Then you will avoid the yaoi H-Scene.
Jun 1, 2015 2:46 PM

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Tell him you feel the same way and bite the pillow.
Jun 1, 2015 3:09 PM

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Tell him you have no romantic feeling for him. But give him the D anyways, just this one time because you're friends.
Jun 1, 2015 3:15 PM
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I'd go for it. You never know.

mayukachan said:
You say "I don't have romantic feelings for you" and then you pretend nothing ever happened because you want to stay friends.

Like how normal people reject others.

This is probably the best advice though, bro. Maybe not pretend like it never happened depending on how the person is, but seriously, reject like you might reject anyone else.

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Jun 1, 2015 4:07 PM

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Gay people are incredibly good at finding other gay people.

So sorry you had to find out this way dude. Don't worry though, once you accept who you are you'll feel much better about yourself.
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Jun 1, 2015 6:02 PM

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Choose option #3: I ain't gay and it is wrong to engage in homosexual actions. Repent pls.
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Jun 1, 2015 6:26 PM

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This is your one-time chance to attract all the Fujoshi.
Jun 1, 2015 7:05 PM

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Give it a shot. Who knows, maybe you will like it.
Jun 1, 2015 7:09 PM

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Tell him you do not want any romantic relationship with him. Then hand him a bible with a bookmark at Leviticus 18 and Romans 1, 27.
Jun 1, 2015 7:13 PM

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Tell him you don't feel the same about him, then move on with life.
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Jun 1, 2015 11:37 PM

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If you're friends with them say
"I don't fly that way, but I love you as a friend, so let's stay friends. I'm sure there's someone out there for you."
Jun 2, 2015 3:54 AM

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Well guys I tried several ways like texting him or others but in the end it all had to come down to me and him directly and you won't believe what happened.....

Before I said anything to him he said 'how have you been and did you thought about it'
The answer should have been obvious after my late reply but he didn't seem to get the idea even after my silence
He continued 'Before you say anything I want to say this'
'When you took a leave for half a month because of your liver condition......
I heard rumors that you were going out with someone and for their sake are trying to change college, I tried to find who it was and it nearly drove me crazy because I've got a crush on you like for 3 years now but since you contacted me a few days back I thought maybe you liked me too........
Maybe those rumors were false and everything else with it and I await your reply!!'
'No FUCKING HELL NO I'M NOT FUCKING GAY YOU FREAK!!''
is what I thought I would say but instead I said
'You know that I don't love you and you might have gotten a clue or two that I don't swing that way and I'm sorry for breaking your heart by rejecting your feeling after you waited for me so long and I think it would be painful for you that if we even continue as friends so I'm really sorry''

He didn't cried but just turned away whispering me good luck for my life......
RaghnaqJun 2, 2015 6:31 AM
Forgot my umbrella......!

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Was it really necessary to call him a freak?
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