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May 8, 5:57 AM
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As per title, Are you a pushover? Do you lack social skills and cave in under pressure?

I personally am quiet and keep to myself but I guess that can be mistaken for being a pushover.
However, when the need arises I will respond to pressure in kind.
May 8, 6:16 AM
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Yes, I push them over, make them sweat and if they cry out I'm gonna push it some more, just like Inner Circle taught me.
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May 8, 6:16 AM
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im weak minded due to my mental health problems so yes
May 8, 6:58 AM
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yeah kinda
i was never really taught how to defend or stand up for myself, if somebodys aggressive enough i can be taken advantage of
its happened in the past too
im high in rizz skill tho so i try to rely on that to escape bad situations and thats usually how i manage by saying some self depricating joke loosening up the atmosphere
there are exceptions tho, when im harrassed on the street by a bigger man then i might freeze like a deer
i dont wanna be a pushover anymore obviously and i try to be stronger, i made an attempt to shout at a guy who was recording me and tell him to fuck off i stood up and tried to look threatening but he responsed with even more aggression and threatened me even more and i got too scared and sat back down and he kept saying shit to me and recording me and later left the train cuz it was his stop
i felt humiliated especially because it was in the train and there were people around and they saw but nobody reacted
being harrassed by men happens to me too often, ive been told that my aura screams easy target
people dont usually come to my defense either, maybe like after a bad situation some random girls just say ''wow i cant believe he did this to u'' or something
where i come from theres big sorta machismo culture, and men in order to prove their masculinity will pick the weakest lone queer and harrass them
for some reason this has become the greatest test for what makes a man a man, a truly admirable endevour
May 8, 8:02 AM
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Yeah, I am... I don't want to fight; I'd rather back down. I lack assertiveness. Maybe I like being dominated.
May 8, 8:07 AM
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I'm quite opposite: rushing into a fight even there is noone fighting, pure courage and stupidity lol. Pretty much like a ram.
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May 8, 8:21 AM
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I’m rather the opposite, I hold my ground and fight back if I need to. I keep true to myself and refuse to let others easily influence me and my thinking.
May 8, 10:01 AM
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あの。。this is probably a 50/50 for me

May 8, 10:03 AM
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"Are you a pushover"

Definitely not.
May 8, 10:28 AM

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I can be.

People know I struggle to say no which means I always get extra tasks either at home or at work. I dunno I just like making people happy and want people to like me, ya feel?



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May 8, 7:07 PM
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I don't mind being asked to do things and try to keep trouble to a minimum. I am fine with declining things, though I don't do it forcefully.
May 9, 2:42 AM

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50/50. I've improved on that over time. Main problem and still an ongoing issue is starting to say yes too many times and then I try to put my foot down and it suddenly makes me a rebel or a villain bc I'm of no use anymore or smt.
May 9, 12:26 PM

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May 9, 12:41 PM

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I had been one for far too long, maybe still am
May 9, 7:14 PM

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Yes, sadly. I was never one to stand up for myself. I've seen pre teens with more toughness than me
May 9, 7:47 PM

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I kind of am, but I'm also a belligerent drunk

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